Teenagers Courtship: Past and Present
Courtship is an
action of expressing love for someone. Courtship is a beautiful topic for
teenagers, they are so interested. And now, on this article, I would like to
differentiate what are the things that a man do when he is courting a girl in
the past and present.
PAST
On the past, teenagers have a high standard when it comes in
courtship. Even the parents were so strict in allowing their children to court
or being courted by someone. Parents wanted to see the man in their own house;
they wanted the courtship for their girl to happen in the house because for
them, it’s a sign of respect not only for the parents but also for the girl.
Here in the Philippines, when a guy
is courting a girl, they do it in the evening and they serenade the girl in the
house. They used a guitar for the instrument and a love song that expresses
their admiration and love for the girl. Another way of courting a girl here in
the Philippines in the past is offering a free service for the family of the
girl. For example, when the father of a girl is a farmer, the guy helped the
father in the farm or the guy will helped the girl is house choirs and so many
more.
Another way of courting a girl in
the past was writing a love letter for the girl. A love letter contains
admiration and love for the girl. Another is giving a flower or a food,
specifically a chocolates or any sweet food.
Every man has different way of
expressing his love for a girl. All I know is that when my grand-mother talked
about courtship in her time, it was so romantic. The guy expresses his love and
admiration in a respectful way for the girl and also for the parents.
PRESENT
The same with the way of a man in the past, some teenagers do some
techniques in courtship. But because of
our modern world, some techniques are disappeared and many are added.
The big difference of courtship
between today’s teenager and before is that courtship is the true actions of
visiting houses of a girl making love proposals personally and most of all
making love letters. Unlike today most courtship among teenagers is done through text messaging on cell phones. But this courtship as we all know is all done
only on the click of the hands with no other effort. This makes courtship
among teenagers today easier but as far as parents are concerned, this could be
unreliable and not sincere. It’s hard to know the sincerity of a guy to a girl.
For a man, if you truly loved the girl, make sure that you expressed it in the right place and in the right way.
For a man, if you truly loved the girl, make sure that you expressed it in the right place and in the right way.
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This was realllllly helpful because my "boyfriend" has a very strict mother and everyone in his family (direct and brother in law) knows about us but not his mom and his brother in law suggested that we tell his mother that we'd like to court rather than come out as dating and it would be a good chance spend more time with him at his house So thank you ☺️
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This is true....As we observe there is a big difference between courtship in the past and present.....I hope courtship in the past would exist in our generation....
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